give a New York friend a panic attack, turn up unannounced on a Wednesday and suggest going for a drink. It is easier to organize five guys to raise a flag on Iwo Jima than to get mates out for movie and dinner. Surprise parties are such fun, but require e-mail “save the date” warnings. And everyone needs to know how to dress

Dress, Dressing, Drink, Drinking Alcohol, Friend, Knowing, Knowing yourself, Knowledge, New form, New life, Raise, Sufficiently, Suggestion,